Showing posts with label motivation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label motivation. Show all posts

10 May, 2013

Not a zephyr for sure ...




It was a lazy sunday afternoon. Pleasant weather, perfect for relaxing at home. Just like how I had planned. Around dusk, just before moon rise, the winds started making strange howling noises, like in classic horror movies. They were perhaps moving at 20 miles per hour, or maybe more. It felt like it might rain any moment. Or maybe even worse. More lightening thoughts flashed in, pointing out the possibilities of either tornadoes or hurricanes. Adding fuel to these thoughts, were the open windows that made high frequency rattling noises, making the scene more dramatic. The speeding winds with their harsh noises, had definitely made their sudden presence felt. Just a not-so-gentle reminder from them. Nothing serious happened later. We watched some TV and called it a day.

But the winds hadn't completed their task yet. The evening scenario had doubled in it's intensity and strength. Maybe it rained too. The winds were blowing harder and faster than ever. And the noises were louder this time. I was unable to sleep and was uneasy in my bed.  Even if  I didn't want to, I had no choice. All I could think of, was the resulting destructions these winds could cause. Totally baseless, but they were sure depriving me of a good night's sleep. It was only when my husband got up and closed the windows, that these disturbing sounds stopped. I fell asleep, in the midst of some quiet conversation with myself.

The wind blows everyday. We take them for granted. But it's presence is only felt when its either a zephyr or a strong gust, and not otherwise. Similarly, we put a lot of effort in our lives daily. But we may not be recognized. Maybe, we too are taken for granted. If being a zephyr works for you, well and good. Doing good work and being nice pays most of the times. But if that doesn't work out, be courageous to make that extra noise. Clear your mind. Voice your thoughts. Mark your presence so you won't be forgotten easily. Just like the winds, your presence will be felt. 

17 April, 2012

Pointers on my realization so far .. in bits n pieces....

We do so many things.. we meet so many people .. we learn and realize from our many many experiences ... But then, time and again we get busier with our mundane lives and end up falling in same pool of mistakes. I have tried to list some of my realizations so far, maybe I will add-on more of them in days to come .. Maybe this will work as a anti-rust on the , if not forgotten realizations...
  • No point in worrying about tomorrow. It drains your energy and leaves you all the more miserable.
  • You are only one your kind. Comparing yourself with someone is like digging your way into misery. Believe in yourself. Do not get carried away by others material success. You know best,what makes u happy !! Just keep doing it and move forward ..
  • Pamper yourself. Be regular in going for jog/walk or aerobics classes which makes you happy. Spend some time with yourself, cos no one can judge you better than yourself...
  • Sometimes keeping patience is better than worrying about results. Money is not everything in life..But do not be ignorant. Take control of things and you will see how things change around you ..
  • Always take some time to work on your hobby..Indulge in music, paint, cook , get your hands dirty in the garden.. there are so many new things to explore .. Venture out and surprise yourself... :)
  • Make time for your loved ones. You cannot to busy always. If not you will end up hurting them.
  • Expectations hurt. Some people never change. Understand and accept it and life becomes easier after that..
  • You cannot have your legs on two boats and still expect not to sink ...Be bold enough to take a decision .Maybe the decision you take might be harsh... you cannot please every body all the time.. Leave it , if someone doesn't understand .. maybe someday they will :)
  • Enjoy and cherish small small moments .. never forget to smile your way through tough times, cos they dont last forever :)

26 March, 2012

something to ponder on ...



Found it so true... :) :) Many a times we get occupied with so many things that we start being unreasonable and we over analyse. Read it , take a break and enjoy every moment that comes your way !! :)

Cheers,
Rani :)

20 November, 2007

The mind - As I see it .


This is what I deeply felt at the pace of life which is moving me.


The greatest sickness that has affected man-kind from ages is that we are not happy with the normalcy of our surroundings.For instance,if its summer,this MIND dreams about the cool pleasant winters.And when its winter what this MIND longs for is the warmth of the sun.And if at all nature exposes its anger,we blame THE CREATOR for mocking at us with HIS bad joke.What the mind examines and finds out is about what it is lacking in and not about what so far it has filled in.Such is the default case of mind.But working in the default mode is insipid.

To spice up the life what needs to be done is addition of a new evolved theme of MIND wherein nature of mind (desiring a step higher than normalcy) remains unchanged but the attitude of tackling is modified. Its about keeping our eyes open and looking out for existing possibilities to emerge out of ignorance rather than getting stuck with non existing typical behaviours.

Let me make it more clearer as I see it .Traditional cars consisted of just three gears(Let this be the Default case).But mileage was the compromised factor.As traditional cars evolved to be the MODERN day machines with additional two gears,the result was better mileage and performance which entirely grew from the basic nature of cars itself.

One of learnt men once said - "Sometimes it is impossible to stop the river of life".But what we can do is improve the quality of life by the simple exercise of evolving the MIND and making life worth living for.Hope you unwrap the top gear and move on with it in this car of life.