Pointers on my realization so far .. in bits n pieces....

We do so many things.. we meet so many people .. we learn and realize from our many many experiences ... But then, time and again we get busier with our mundane lives and end up falling in same pool of mistakes. I have tried to list some of my realizations so far, maybe I will add-on more of them in days to come .. Maybe this will work as a anti-rust on the , if not forgotten realizations...

• No point in worrying about tomorrow. It drains your energy and leaves you all the more miserable.

• You are only one your kind. Comparing yourself with someone is like digging your way into misery. Believe in yourself. Do not get carried away by others material success. You know best,what makes u happy !! Just keep doing it and move forward ..

• Pamper yourself. Be regular in going for jog/walk or aerobics classes which makes you happy. Spend some time with yourself, cos no one can judge you better than yourself...

• Sometimes keeping patience is better than worrying about results. Money is not everything in life..But do not be ignorant. Take control of things and you will see how things change around you ..

• Always take some time to work on your hobby..Indulge in music, paint, cook , get your hands dirty in the garden.. there are so many new things to explore .. Venture out and surprise yourself... :)

• Make time for your loved ones. You cannot to busy always. If not you will end up hurting them.

• Expectations hurt. Some people never change. Understand and accept it and life becomes easier after that..

• You cannot have your legs on two boats and still expect not to sink ...Be bold enough to take a decision .Maybe the decision you take might be harsh... you cannot please every body all the time.. Leave it , if someone doesn't understand .. maybe someday they will :)

• Enjoy and cherish small small moments .. never forget to smile your way through tough times, cos they dont last forever :)

Element of surprise ... as a emotion ... :)

Sometimes we have a fixed opinion on some people, how they think , how they behave , how they react and similar such thoughts ... Yes. I am somewhere proving to be judgemental . But then I feel we just cant stop, not being so. There's always a surprise element when they do something, which no doubt, made you happy but left a question in your mind -'Is this the person I have known ?' , followed by a smile on your face :) You feel good even though you are proved wrong somewhere .. Rather its a bonus to you cos you have discovered something new about your friend or person concerned that it makes things easier. Seriously, emotions are beautiful :)

Hope to find more surprises which leaves you happier with newer discoveries.

something to ponder on ...

Found it so true... :) :) Many a times we get occupied with so many things that we start being unreasonable and we over analyse. Read it , take a break and enjoy every moment that comes your way !! :)

Cheers,

Rani :)

Irony ...

I call it , "Irony of a geek developer's girlfriend "

Wish I was some piece of code -

you would have spent time with me more,

Analysed every bit of me,

Loved me more passionately

And made me complete.

But today I am jealous of the code you write -

Such an irony but true in reality .

PS : all characters are imaginary ... no resemblance to any person dead or alive :P